Things to Do to Win your Girlfriend Back

When you just lose a girlfriend, there are some things you are naturally inclined to do to win her back. Here’s some advice: anything you think of doing right now, off the top of your head, on impulse, is probably the wrong move. Stop to think again.

The first thing you need to get in order with yourself is the mental note that you aren’t begging them for her love. Do not beg her to take you back. Do not argue, or try to win her back with your clever words. They will fall flat on their faces. I am saying this, because they are the most natural things you will feel like doing once she says she’s leaving you. Resist your impulse, and take the opposite course of action.

Act like a man. Do not even bring up any talk about the relationship. Instead play very cool indeed.  Yes of course, you want her back, but give her the impression that you are also ready to move on yourself. Of course, this seems a lot harder than I write it, but it will pay off, so just go with it. Let her think that you are cool and perfect with the whole break up idea. Never give her the impression that you are an emotional wreck, even if you are.

If you want to win your ex girlfriend back, then you need to get her to fall in love with you over again. To do that, you need to be the ‘you’ she fell in love with the first time.

Generally, in the beginning of the relationship, you probably were more assertive, more vibrant and more confident. Your decisiveness was altered as the relationship went on. At any rate, it may have gotten so bad that your girlfriend became the more assertive and confident one, and that is where power changed hands. You see, a girl likes to feel like her man is in control, and when you relinquished that decision – making ability to her, you lost your ‘sexiness’, that quality which made her attracted to you in the first place. You need to find a way to recover your initial cockiness and confidence that made you turn her on. Without this, you will never be the guy she once knew you to be.

Yes, this is the fact: if you need your ex girlfriend back, you have to change for the better. Of course, no one ever said it would be an easy chore, but if you value her as much as you say, and realizing that this is the only way you can get her back, you will get over with it as soon as possible before it becomes too late. If, on the other hand, you ignore this, and find a way to get back on her good side, you can rest assured that it will be short-lived. Your old annoying behavior will creep in and sabotage everything. So deal with it right now, once and for all.

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